There are some advices that may seem invalidated when it comes to the likes of men. They seem petty but let me tell you that most relationships are destroyed not by the very big things but by these small things that ladies are negligent about.
Men love complements. There are some things that men do in order to please their women. They afterwards love to be complimented and if that does not come, things usually start to fall apart. A man married for fourteen years was called upon to make a speech in a certain congress. He prepared a very powerful speech with the minds of impressing not the audience but his wife. After the presentation, a dozen people congratulated him but his wife didn’t. This was the beginning of a rocky journey that culminated in to a divorce.
Men like women who listen to what they say. This is what men secretly want. Not only listening but also walking according to their wishes. This is a weakness several ladies have. They only want to talk about themselves and do what pleases them at the expense of the interests of their men. It becomes worse when she knows that you love her so much and she thinks you cannot leave her. It will be too late for you when it dawns on you that he has left you simply because you didn’t listen.
If a guy tells you something, try to remember it because men will rarely tell you something if it is not worth being remembered. When a guy tells you of a time he intends to do something for his family and expects your participation, it will be very disappointing if that time comes and you claim that you had forgotten about that.
Lastly, learn to give your man some attention. When he is addressing you on some issues and you are not concentrating or you argue about very serious issues, it will click in his mind that you are undermining his authority. This can be catastrophic.